Compare the role of the neutral
| Process | Who controls or decides the result? | What to clarify |
|---|---|---|
| Direct negotiation | The parties decide whether to agree. | Authority, written terms and any pending court duties. |
| Mediation | A neutral helps the parties seek agreement; the settlement terms require the parties’ agreement. | Attendance order, confidentiality rules, cost and how any agreement is documented. |
| Arbitration | An arbitrator hears the dispute and issues an award under the governing arrangement. | Binding or nonbinding effect, authority, fees, procedure and review or trial rights. |
| Court resolution | A judge or jury decides under applicable court rules, unless the parties settle. | Deadlines, proof, costs, judgment enforcement and appeal requirements. |
New York Courts describes several ADR routes and notes that court and county programs can differ. New York Courts: Ways to settle a case
Prepare mediation around options you can perform
Bring the balance history, disputed issues, relevant agreement and realistic payment capacity. Know who can approve terms on each side. Consider amounts, timing, releases, court status and property consequences together.
Check the program’s confidentiality rules rather than assuming everything said or the existence of mediation is universally confidential. For example, the D.C. federal mediation program distinguishes protected mediation communications from the public referral itself, rather than treating the fact of referral as confidential. D.C. federal courts: District Court mediation FAQs
Attendance requirements and consent to a proposed settlement are different questions. If you agree, read the final terms and confirm the required signatures and court action. If you do not agree, ask what deadlines and next events remain.
After the session, identify the document that controls
- Settlement: obtain the signed version, payment terms and required court filing or approval.
- Arbitration award: record issuance, filing and service dates separately; identify procedures to recognize or challenge the award, or to request a new trial where allowed.
- Court order: obtain the entered document and determine whether an order pausing enforcement (a stay) or a further filing is needed.
These are not interchangeable endpoints. Do not treat a request for review as an automatic stay of collection, or an unsigned settlement draft as proof that the dispute ended. Fees, review rights and enforcement can turn on the precise route. Obtain legal help early when a binding award, waiver or judgment is proposed.
Sources and further reading
- New York Courts: Ways to settle a case
- D.C. federal courts: District Court mediation FAQs
- New York Courts: Settlements
General educational information. The original evidence, dates and recorded qualifications are available in the optional archive below.